CITYNY Magazine — Feb/Mar 2000

 N E W S L E T T E R.. A R C H I V E S • Y O G A L I C I O U S #44 May 2005

Namaste Yogis and Yogins

Standing in the grocery check out line I over heard a young woman on her cell phone repeating the infamous mantra, "I just need a little more balance". Her tone of voice was so familiar to me. In today’s "high-speed, instant messaging, get-it-to-go world" most of us ponder the subject of a little more balance frequently.

Yoga and all holistic healing arts are rooted in the science of ‘Balance’: Effort and rest,
elimination and assimilation; yin and yang; sun and moon; etc. Yet it is often easier studied than done. To truly understand what will balance us as individuals (on a mind, body and spirit level) demands great self-study and insight. Furthermore, given that our inner and outer conditions are never static; this journey towards wholeness is changing moment by moment; making it an endless adventure for even those most committed.

I was very inspired writing this issue as I work to balance my life as a new mom. So read on for lots of great articles, ideas, and practices to help promote a more balanced you.

With great joy,
Jillian
http://www.yogajillian.com

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WORDS OF WISDOM

"Most people are so busy knocking themselves out trying to do everything they think they should do, they never get around to do what they want to do."— Kathleen Winsor

 
JILLIAN’S NEW TEACHING SCHEDULE

In my quest for balance, I’ve been on hiatus from teaching for 3 months. I have been enjoying time with my family, deepening my practice, and exploring my newest hobby cooking! I begin teaching again May 31: Tuesdays 6pm at Be Yoga, NYC (http://www.beyoga.com) and Saturdays 10:30am at Devotion Yoga, Hoboken (http://www.devotionyoga.com). Please join me for a Free Class with the coupon below. Send it along to your friends as well! I can’t wait to see you and reconnect!   back to top

 
WHAT BALANCES US?

"What we require is not a balanced diet but a balancing diet. We need a diet that balances us, not itself."-- Aadil Palkhivala. Most of us have grown comfortable with imbalance. In fact, we even perceive it as balance. Imbalance is extremely difficult to see, let alone change our habitual way of being, in order to create more equilibrium. The job is made even more challenging as society encourages us to ignore the inner voices of our body and heart which offer much needed wisdom for balancing our lives. As a result, instead of listening inward to discover our unique needs, we often ascribe to the latest fad or ‘approved’ routine. Instead, we need to learn what balances us as individuals. Ayurveda is a great place to start. The paths of yoga and Ayurveda are closely intertwined. It is one of the oldest systems of natural health care, originating in the earliest traditions of India. It addresses all factors that influence our quality of life and is based on the principle that nothing exists in isolation; your diet, the climate, the seasons, family, work, relationships, environment, and basically everything you interact with has effect on your health and well being. Like yoga, Ayurveda states that health is more than the absence of disease; it is a dynamic state of balance and integration of body, mind, and spirit. To learn more read these articles:

1. Knowing your ‘prakriti’ can help you stay balanced http://www.yogajournal.com/health/1230_1.cfm

2. Creating balance while under stress http://www.yogajournal.com/health/1517_1.cfm

3. An Ayurvedic approach to eating allows us to make intelligent food choices, avoid cravings, and satisfy our hunger.
http://www.yogajournal.com/health/646_1.cfm?ctsrc=rel647

4. Does your yoga class actually balance you? http://www.yogajournal.com/health/858.cfm   
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INSIDE OUT
"Order is not pressure which is imposed on society from without, but an equilibrium which is set up from within." Jose Ortega Gasset" -- Jose Ortega Gasset    back to top
 
WILLIAM 101

After a few hours of a house filled with excited guests, my 21 month old son William did what many of us only dream of doing…. He decided it was time for every one to go home and in sign language expressed, "All done. You go. Bye-bye." Every one thought it was rather cute. Embarrassed, humored, and oddly proud my husband Brad and I knew that it was true. William had had enough. A spirited child, he is easily over-stimulated and it was time for quiet. If he didn’t attend to his feelings, the rest of the day would surely be a mess. I wish it were as easy for me to see what my needs were and make the changes needed. Of course, it’s pretty simple for a 21 month old. It is usually about sleep, food, environment, temperature, clothes, diapers, play, music, quiet… ect.. But at this pre-socialized age, he’s more in touch with his needs than most adults I meet. He does have the advantage of not yet caring about ‘insulting’ guests, he hasn’t learned to ‘endure’ most emotional or physical states, and he knows some one else will be there to ‘fix" things. But it is interesting to consider how socialization and cultural pressures can cause us to grow so out of touch with our basic needs for balance. Thankfully, through witnessing William and due to my challenges as a new mom, I’ve been re-learning how to more quickly perceive when I’m out of sync and therefore making changes a little more easily.   back to top

 
BEING VS. DOING
There seems to be an inherent conflict between being in the present and accomplishing everything that needs to get done. But do you have to choose between your housework and meditation? http://www.yogajournal.com/wisdom/723_1.cfm   back to top
 
THE WORKING MOM CHALLENGE
Good web site for the Working Mom looking for balance. If you’re not one, share it with some one who is: http://www.bluesuitmom.com/career/findingbalance/anotherchild.html     back to top
 
FAST TIMES, QUICK PRACTICES
Many of my students express that they are simply too busy to find time to relax. Yet, the busier we get, the more our lives grow out of balance. These busy times call for lots extra creative ways to incorporate moments of stillness and repose. And, the good news is, just slipping in just a few minutes of simple practices here and there can make a profound difference! Try these easy ways: a.) TAKE A FEW DEEP BREATHS when stopped at a traffic light or waiting on line for our lunch. Feel your breath moving into your body, expanding all four sides of your torso, and then slowly count the length of your breath as it leaves your body. B.) SILENTLY REPEAT A MANTRA like ‘Om’ or an uplifting word such as ‘peace’ during your morning train ride. This is a great one to do during public transportation. Not only will it make a crowded ride more enjoyable, but it will help you feel more compassion for your fellow commuters. C.) EAT MORE MINDFULLY and take deeper pleasure in your meals through savoring each moment of your eating. It helps to eat in silence when possible. Before you take a bite, observe your feast (whether a single apple or a full course meal), consider its origins, notice the colors and smell the aroma. Finally take only one bite at a time let it linger in your mouth as you the taste and texture of each bite. D.) USE THE LITTLE MOMENTS WISELY. With all the new phone systems corporations are using, there’s always a few moments while waiting for an operator or service person. Take this time to close your eyes and go within or to say a little prayer.  back to top
 
EFFORT AND SURRENDER
Alternating periods of intense activity and rest is an important part of life, so it's no surprise that this principle serves as the foundation of yoga itself. Yoga is all about balance--even between active engagement and deep release. http://www.yogajournal.com/wisdom/1469_1.cfm?ctsrc=nlv148  back to top
 
SEQUENCING
"I've learned that you can't have everything and do everything at the same time." Oprah Winfrey  back to top
 
YOGA PRACTICE - WHEN LESS IS MORE
By trying too hard, you may be adding tension to your poses...and your life. By Phillip Moffitt http://www.yogajournal.com/practice/211_1.cfm?ctsrc=blurb5  back to top
 
LIFE BALANCE
The Life Balance Institute is a non-profit organization dedicated to the study of the mind-body relationship in personal inner-growth and in the process of understanding and clarifying personal and professional challenges. http://www.lifebalance.org/about/  back to top
 
BALANCED ACTION
"Each choice we make causes a ripple effect in our lives. When things happen to us, it is the reaction we choose
that can create the difference between the sorrows of our past and the joy in our future."
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AUTUM YOGA RETREAT With Jillian – SEPTEMEBER 16-18, 2005
Come join me for an Unforgettable Weekend Yoga ReTreat and welcome the brilliant fall in the Berkshires Mountains (only two and a half hours from NYC). Deepen your practice, soak up nature, and luxuriate in the unforgettable setting of Race Brook Lodge. Famous for its peaceful country style and inspiring surroundings, this quiet rustic Lodge is ideal for our uplifting get-a-way. One of my favorite features is the musical brook that resonates throughout the property and the cozy brook-side hammocks that offer the most delicious respite between classes! Our Yoga Studio, a lofty restored Barn, is a warm sacred space, illuminated by huge sky lit ceilings. We will enjoy Yoga, Sitting and walking meditations, deep relaxation, an equinox ritual, delicious gourmet organic meals, and great company! Between classes, you will have plenty of time to relax and enjoy the natural beauty, have bodywork, or go out exploring. Space will go quickly. For more information email Julie at yoga_julie@yahoo.com. To read more about the retreat and location visit www.yogajillian.com and click under retreats.  back to top
 
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Enjoy,
Jillian
 
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212 647 9642

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Bring this with you for a complimentary class. Valid 5/31 – 7/15. To use this coupon, you must not have attended Classes at Be Yoga or Devotion since March 31, 2005. Please call in advance to ensure I’m teaching. Please feel free to forward to or print copies for your friends! Hope to see you soon.

Namaste, Jillian

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