CITYNY Magazine — Feb/Mar 2000

 N E W S L E T T E R.. A R C H I V E S • Y O G A L I C I O U S #46 October/November 2005

Namaste Yogis and Yoginis,

I admit it… I am a summer girl at heart. I wear my sandals well into autumn. It’s hard for me to let go of the season. Of course, I enjoy fall too and savor the crisp air and colorful foliage. But to me, these shorter days are an imminent sign of the colder months to come. And simply put, I’m just not a fan of winter.

We all tend to clutch what we like and resist that which we dislike. But it is our habitual rejections and inclinations that create our suffering, not the actual conditions. Trapped in our routine preferences, we miss the gifts of each unique moment.

Yoga Master John Friend speaks often on this subject. In a recent teacher training I took with him, he passionately shared the Tantric yoga view that “when you gain respect for time, each moment becomes more precious. Even the mundane can be transformed to a moment of grace…there is always some holiness to celebrate with in each and every day.”

Obviously, living this philosophy takes practice. It is a great skill to flow openly moment to moment, embracing life fully. But we can practice it on our yoga mats, as well as throughout or day.

May this issue of Yogalicious inspire you to delight in each minute with which you are gifted. As Omar Khayyam has said, “Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.”

With great joy,
Jillian

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WORDS OF WISDOM

"Put your heart, mind, spirit and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success."Swami Sivananda

 
WILLIAM 101

Sometimes getting my two year old son, William, dressed for a trip to the park can be grounds for war. Once there, getting him to leave the park can be the second war. After much trial and error I have become very skilled at guiding him through transitions. The trick is to make the ‘transitions’ as satisfying as the ‘destination’. For instance, leaving the park is usually initiated by an invitation to go on a ‘hunt’ for the car or to have a race. Riding in the car, we point out dogs, trees, trucks or what ever we pass. Climbing the stairs into the house we count steps or look at patterns in the carpet. Getting undressed we watch our pinky fingers disappear through the sleeves or enjoy the characters on his clothing. You get the picture. While I may have developed this technique trying to outwit the temperament of a two year old, it has been a great opportunity for me to practice too! It is like practicing yoga. Yoga teaches us that the wisdom is not in reaching a final destination of a pose but instead in cultivating mindfulness and creative spirit while moving and out of the pose. Yoga helps us learn that no matter how much we love a ‘moment’, pose, or situation we can’t hold on to it. It is forever changing. Resisting this natural flow of change will ultimately create pain or dis-ease for us. Instead, we aspire to go with the flow and fully experience the preciousness of each moment with whatever it brings. When traveling through the day with William in this way, the fruits of the practice are obvious. Things flow more gracefully and we enjoy many positive experiences together. He stays engaged and is inspired by even the simplest discoveries. It is much like Greg Anderson says, "Only one thing has to change for us to know happiness in our lives: where we focus our attention."  back to top

 
“Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important.” Captain Jean-Luc Picard
 
ON THE MAT

I often practice yoga during my sons nap. While William sleeps for about one hour and a half, he actually wakes every 15-45 minutes during this time and needs help to fall back asleep. Obviously, I can never know how long my practice will be. So by default, I’ve learned to approach each individual pose as if it were to be my whole practice. Trust me, when you only have one moment, you learn to make it count! Try it with your asana practice, even in a group class. After you center yourself, set an intention to put your fullest attention and effort into each single pose as if it were the only one you could do for that day. Every few breaths, take a moment to pause and embody the pose as if it were to be your whole practice.     back to top

 
INSTANT YOGA VACATION – REFOCUS AND REFRESH ANYWHERE
In the midst of your busy day, you can give yourself a five-minute retreat no matter where you are—in the office, on the subway, even waiting in line at the grocery store. Begin by taking a few deep deliberate breaths. (If you are sitting some where safe, try closing your eyes.) Then allow your mind to rest on the flow of your breath as it happens naturally. Gently watch your inhale and exhale, without analyzing or anticipating. After a few minutes, as you begin to relax, allow your inhale to deepen and your exhale to lengthen slightly. Stay with this technique for 3-5 minutes. Thoughts will come and go. As they pop up on the movie-screen of your mind, allow yourself to relax more. Know that you don’t have to buy a ticket to the show. Let the thoughts come and go without investing in them. Invite your mind to return to resting on your breath. As you begin to feel satisfied, finish by acknowledging the presence or peace you cultivated.     back to top
 
“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.” - Annie Dillard
 
THE BIG CHILL – STAYING HEALTHY DURING VATA SEASON

I know I’m not the only one who is challenged by the cooler months… After all, according to Ayurveda (a 5,000 year old holistic science from India) November through February is Vata season. Vata is the principle of movement, coolness, and wind. Therefore the energetic quality and weather conditions of the season cause most of us to agitate more easily, become more anxious or “spacey” than usual, and have a harder time feeling grounded and calm. We can all benefit from incorporating some Vata balancing techniques during this time. Vata is subtle, light, cool, rough, drying, and variable. So we need to emphasize heavier, warmer, smooth, moist and more stable kinds of things to offset the increased seasonal Vata. Some simple recommendations are to eat more warm, cooked foods and less cold or raw foods. Stick to a regular routine; get more sleep, use less stimulants, and do daily yoga practice. A few poses that are good for soothing Vata are Uttanasana (Standing Forward Bend), Paschimottanasana (Seated Forward Bend), Balasana (Child's Pose), Supta Virasana (Reclining Hero), Dhanurasana (Bow), Virasana (Hero), Padmasana (Lotus), and Savasana (Corpse Pose). Of course, these are only general tips and Ayurveda is truly a science of individualized attention. It is best if you see a trained practitioner or do some more research. Here are few these good articles to begin: http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Coffey5.html Ayurveda and The Doshas http://www.yogajournal.com/health/858_1.cfm Does your yoga class not feel quite right? It could be because it's not a good match with your Ayurvedic dosha. www.yogajournal.com/health/55_1.cfm  back to top

 
GOOD SCENTS
Known for their warming, calming, grounding, or uplifting principles, these essential scents are helpful during the cooler months: Lavender, Sandalwood, Orange, Cinnamon and Lemon.  back to top
 
Keep your faith in all beautiful things; in the sun when it is hidden, in the Spring when it is gone. - Roy R. Gilson
 
BRIGHT SPIRIT YOGA TEACHER TRAINING BEGINS MARCH 2006
A 11 month, Nationally Certified Program, March- December at Devotion Yoga in Hoboken. We are now accepting applications. Bright Spirit is designed for serious yoga practitioners interested in either deepening their practice or teaching yoga, as well as teachers who want to enhance their skills or work toward national certification. Course is held over 11 weekends and 8 Wednesday nights. Your fee includes training, manual, full 10-month Membership at Devotion Yoga, and three-day retreat at Hope Retreat Center in Hope NJ. For more information or an application email yoga_julie@yahoo.com   back to top
 
RACE BROOK 2005
This September, 34 fun-loving yogis joined me for the best Race Brook Retreat yet! Our country lodge is at the foot of the Appalachian Trail, surrounded by lush vegetation and lots of hammocks! Our Yoga classes are in a restored 1880’s barn, illuminated by huge sky lit ceilings. Over the weekend we shared extra long yoga classes, a beautiful walking meditation, and very deep relaxations. Our classes focused on techniques for grounding, preparing for the winter season, and celebrating the equinox. On Saturday night we had a fire circle under an incredibly full, Harvest Moon. It was amazing. In addition to melting marshmallows for S’mores, we dined on delicious natural gourmet meals throughout the weekend. It was a transformational and playful weekend. back to top
 
SUPER MUSIC FOR YOGA AND EVERYDAY
Love this sampler! Ajna Music MetroSpiritual - http://ajnamusic.com/  back to top
 
MAILING PROBLEMS
I’ve been having major mailing problems with my e-publishing service. Therefore, I’m looking for a new company. And, I would love your help. If you can recommend a publishing service, please let me know. Also, please let me know if you are only getting Yogalicious sporadically, or if your “yogalicious” friends have been dropped from my mailings.  back to top
 
Thanks so much for joining me here and sharing your time.

As always, I would love to hear your comments, suggestions or any thoughts you would like to share!

With Great Love,
Jillian
 

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